I have just learned that I have the beginnings of "heart failure". I have always had a mitral valve prolapse, but never really worried about that too much. After a check up in August, I learned that the heart is not pumping effectively and that I may need a pacemaker/defibrillator at some point in the future. Again, where are the "sunflower moments"? I am having a difficult time wrapping my mind around this whole concept of growing older, and having health problems. God gave Doug a second chance a couple of times with his stents and we have been so grateful! Now, God, what? What do you have in store for me? See Ezekiel 36:26-27
"I will give you a new heart and put a new spirit in you; I will remove from you your heart of stone and give you a heart of flesh. And I will put my Spirit in you and move you..."
I am ready to be moved in some way, I feel it in my soul that some change is about to take place. I just know that I am not ready to give up on living. God has spoken to me through a song that I have been walking to by the Newsboys. The last refrain echoes this last line...and when I hear it I feel that God is speaking to me through the music.
"There is so much more for you........There is so much more for you.......There is so much more for you...."
I trust that this is true! Whatever it is or wherever it takes me I am willing. Of course, I have my own ideas of what I'd like it to be: resting peacefully in a field of sunflowers, loved by my family and friends, healthy and whole emotionally and physically, resting in complete trust that the end will be pleasant. I guess I really can't know yet!
Mike is again looking at going back to school. He wants to go up to Kenosha to live near his girlfriend. I am trying very hard to just stay out of the way. I just can't seem to let go of the thought that he really needs help and support to get healthy and stable himself. I truly don't know how to help him in a healthy way. I truly don't. I just ask God daily for wisdom and discernment, patience and the ability to step out of the way and let Mike do the things he needs to do for himself. I doubt. Then I tell myself that doubt means that I don't trust God to help Mike figure things out.....and I don't want to be lacking in faith so I just work on "letting go" and "letting go" and clinging to my faith in God.
How can I feel anything but wonderful when I see the smile of my 1 month old grandson? I love him so much! His smile brightens my evening!
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